The Quest #199:🔥Behind the scenes of a Hot Seat experiment

🔥 When’s the last time you tried a new live session format?

I led a live session with the Circle community on how to level up live community events.

Building on an idea from my brilliant session collaborator Emma Catranis, I decided to try something different from my usual workshop or training format.

I tested out a rotating Hot Seat 🔥

This community is packed with people who already run great events.

I wanted to tap into that experience and meet them where they were.

So instead of teaching a framework, I’d respond in real time to whatever challenges came up.

It felt risky.

In a Hot Seat, you never know what’s coming.

And since we were on Circle Live Stream, I couldn’t see anyone’s faces—just the chat.

But I needed to do it.

I know that to keep things fresh, I need to move out of my comfort zone into my stretch zone. Even Especially if that feels a little scary.


Here’s How We Ran It (Minute by Minute)

10 mins: Warm up + instant value​
Emma from Circle gave a warm welcome đź‘‹
Then we kicked off with a chat prompt:
👉 â€śWhat’s your favourite opening icebreaker?”​
Everyone walked away with a bunch of new ideas they could use.

Next, a chatterfall:
👉 â€śTwo words to describe how you feel running live events.”​
Words like excitedhopeful, and nervous filled the chat. A great way to surface emotions and build connection.

I segued into a quick intro and shared the session plan.

5 mins: Framing the Hot Seat​
I explained the goal, gave a short agenda, and Emma broke down how the Hot Seats would work.
We set the tone: this would be co-created in real time.

40 min: 3 Hot Seats, Live Coaching Style​
Each Hot Seat followed the same rhythm:

  1. The volunteer shared a challenge.
  2. We unpacked it together.
  3. I offered ideas and tips, and the group chimed in with advice, reflections, and support in the chat.
  4. The volunteer shared their biggest takeaway.

💡 The chat added layers I couldn’t have planned for.

5 min: Close with Action​
We wrapped with a recap, shared a workbook, and closed with a final chat prompt:
👉 â€śWhat’s one thing you could do to level up your live sessions?”


Here’s what worked:

✔️ Real-time relevance​
Hot Seats surface real challenges and let you support people on the spot. It felt human, specific—not theoretical.

✔️ Collective wisdom​
The chat turned into a mini strategy doc. Peer insight, shared struggles, practical ideas. It was pure gold. ✨

✔️ Aha moments you could feel​
You could see lightbulbs going off as people made connections and got clarity.

Was it perfect?

Absolutely not!

We got to 3 hot seats instead of 5.

Next time I’d tighten up the Hot Seat format with specific timings for each question. And a visible timer to keep things on track.

Was it worth it?

100%. It’s inspired me to explore how real-time coaching can play a bigger role in my training sessions.


🔥 Want to Try a Hot Seat in Your Own Sessions?

Here’s how to get started:

Start with a warm-up​
Use a chat prompt or chatterfall to get everyone contributing right away—and build instant value.

Frame it clearly​
Explain what a Hot Seat is and how it’ll run. Reassure folks they don’t need to have it all figured out.

Make it participatory​
Invite others to share thoughts, questions, and insights in the chat while the Hot Seat’s happening.

Keep it moving​
Use a light structure so each Hot Seat stays focused and flowing.

End with reflection​
Ask: What’s one insight or idea you’re taking away? Or What’s one thing you’ll try next?


Have you ever tried a Hot Seat?​
Or been in one that really worked?
Reply and let me know—what made it great, or what made it hard?

Let’s trade notes. 🧠✨


This Week’s Facilitator Finds đź’Ş

In this section, you’ll find curated events, resources, tips, and tools that I’ve found super valuable — and I think you will too!

Just one this time👇

1/ 🎉Bring Your Own Reason to Celebrate Parties. A breakdown on how to host a party where it’s not about accomplishments. It’s all about celebration. And who doesn’t need a little celebration right now? Via Priya Parker’s newsletter.


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